Try to act gradually. Accelerate the process of reconciliation can not be specifically otherwise the effect can be reversed. Smooth out their differences, go to the concessions do not pay attention to the emerging tense moments.
Try to focus on what connects you to the husband's family the most. It may be children, common hobbies, vacation home, which you use all together. Use this as a unifying factor.
Be restrained in emotion and communication. It is possible relatives spouse cause you irritation, against which develops an argument. However, to maintain normal relations you have to learn to accept these people more easily. Stick to neutral line behavior.
For reconciliation sometimes quite sincere attention to the relatives of the spouse. Be interested in their lives, to visit them with her husband, so they do not feel alone.
Make for the husband's family something nice. Do not be afraid to take the initiative: a decisive step towards your can ever get past your differences. Send your family on vacation, have a picnic, invite them to visit. Try to find out if they have a problem and try to help. Treat yourself for a little help or advice: Close husband often want to feel a part in the life of your family.