Divorce - is not an option. But to forgive infidelity, you need to have a strong character and try to understand the reason why there was a betrayal, it is virtually impossible in a fit of anger. Therefore, to forgive the woman her husband's infidelity, you must remain calm and not hysterics. Emotions to no good will not result.
The first thing to start with yourself, analyze what you nedodali husband? Why he was drawn to the side? What he found in a new relationship? Indeed, in most cases, men do not change to a great love, but for another reason. When men change their wives, they never think about divorce. And then they honestly admit to them that tear down the family and were not going to love his wife even more. And men do not lie, they tell the real truth.
We must remember that by nature men are polygamous, for them is normal to have more than one woman, they just can not belong to one lifetime, unlike women who are monogamous by nature. Men lifetime compared to their wives with other women to prove to everyone around them that their choice was the best. But they realize that this is true? Therefore, it turns from time to time these ridiculous treason.
Every woman needs to be a little psychologist to understand the psychology of men. You can get my husband changed the porevnovat you. Start a little later to go home and just take care of yourself better. Let the husband feels the state that you have experienced. And it will be easier, and the husband will feel how much you are dear to him.
To the woman was easier to forgive her husband's infidelity, you need to understand the nature of man. Changed - it does not mean that out of love. Perhaps, after the betrayal he will love you even more. Give the man the opportunity. After all, cheating can not be the end of your relationship, and the new revolution in their development.