Step 2. Describe the anti-ideal. Now think about what you would not have to put up in a relationship. Do not limit the list of alcohol, betrayals and physical violence. Pay close attention to detail, traits and habits with which you will be hard to get along. Slovenly, greedy, or, conversely, too wasteful, rude, and so on. D. Think of all that you did not like in the former partners, and make a list. This "cheat sheet" to help you immediately cut off unsuitable candidates on hand and heart. Indeed, in the heat of passion inherent beginning of a relationship, there is a risk to ignore the "alarm bells". So the frustration and pain of another separation will be much stronger.
Step 3: The ideal woman. Agree, the man of your dreams need a suitable lover. Try to imagine what it is? Well-groomed, smart, well-read, held professionally or aimed at creating a strong family? Surely in this list will prevail positive characteristics. Compare the portrait with himself. There are slight differences? Well, it's time to take himself in hand. Join a gym or pool, get yourself an interesting hobby, start to attend courses in a foreign language. Firstly, you can freshen up, become more confident and attractive. Secondly, met a lot of interesting men. It is possible that among them, and you will find someone who matches your ideal.