Any woman, even the most progressive and self-confident, thoughtful once again, if fate brought her to a man younger than her, especially if the age difference is quite palpable and reaches ten, fifteen or twenty years.
The main issues of concern to women hesitate to marry a man much younger than they are known. The attitude of society, especially family and friends. In fact, public opinion can be disastrous for such a relationship.
- Do not you find a young girl? Why do you have this old woman? And hunt you associate with her life - you better suited her daughter, who only a few years younger than you, and her eldest son could be your classmate - that often hears the man who meets with a woman older than him.
Relatives and friends of the women say that it is a disgrace to himself, appearing with this young hunk who is likely to be unfaithful with young girlfriends, and generally uses it for their own selfish purposes. Often they try to "save" her, introduced to solid suitors, think again call.
And the woman sometimes allows himself to such thoughts, even at the height of passion - not whether it will be funny next to the boy? In this case, you can only give one piece of advice. Think about what is more important - personal happiness or the opinions of others? Will you be able to overcome prejudice and enjoy the love? If yes, then do not pay more attention to them. In the end, people are so little to do with the other! When you cease to be a hot topic for discussion, talk about you stop. And many, perhaps, envy, looking at your rejuvenated happy face.
Also, women are worried, would not it be a young husband to emphasize their age. It's all in your hands. Of course, the life of a young man requires more careful care. No wonder observed that women who have an affair with a younger man, younger beside him.
A common question that is asked by a woman in such a situation - whether we have prospects? Do not throw it me? You know, this is absolutely not necessary to think! Remember how many marriages fail each year, and because most of them were classic in which a husband and wife were the same age or older than the husband of his wife. Nobody can give you a guarantee that your relationship will last a lifetime. But if you refuse them, worrying about the future, just depriving themselves of several exciting years of passion and love.
If you have a young husband, then you have the opportunity to experience a second youth, and, perhaps, to keep the relationship forever. After all, a lot depends on you, the more experienced and wise partner.
Is it worth it to give up their own happiness because of other people's opinions and come up with fears?