Learn listening skills. It does not matter in the beginning of a relationship or at a later stage - is the ability to always come in handy. During a call, cease to speak and be silent, giving the other party to outline their point of view. Even when he tells all about what to say, for some time continue to remain silent. Sometimes this step allows you to talk even the most closed of men, for they will thank you later. Everything else, you pass for a good listener.
Do not pour out the accumulated tension on the partner. If you want to curse, cry, or you have a bad mood for no reason, try to find out the cause of this. So it will be easier to survive hard times. Negative emotions leave in the gym or on the boxing training. Or you can just yell in a deserted space or beat a pillow. Your partner is not to blame for what happens to you.
Be sincere. Always try to tell the elect of their true desires, tastes and preferences. At the right time, of course. Do not be fooled by the man who next. At the same time, do not be afraid to tell the truth, in order to appear to him in a different light. The truth anyway, sooner or later, will come up to the outside, and it will be unpleasant for both of you. Sincerity is able to reveal any heart.