Dig into yourself. Do not you deserve the best? Most likely, for the painful affection worth the fear of loneliness. He is particularly strong if you were completely dissolved in a relationship with a man, forgetting their own friends and hobbies. So start resuming an active social life. Do not sit at home, imagining how cute your supper at a table with his wife and children. Force yourself to go out into the world: Mileage shopping, go to the guests, visit an interesting event. Sign up for the swimming pool, gym, ballroom dancing courses or even a library. The more new friends and connections will be with you, the more complete will be your life, the easier it will be possible to decide on a break.
The second step is much more difficult. Sit down and analyze the behavior of your lover. Just try not to lie to himself, justifying married lover. If he is still with his wife - so it keeps more than pity, habit or children. After all, a man who has lost interest in a woman, no power forced to live with her. In addition, changing one, it is unlikely to be an exemplary husband to another, and thus your imaginary happiness is marred with lies and betrayal. Are you satisfied with such a future?
Flirt, flirt and flirt again. It is easy communication with the opposite sex will help you understand the appeal of its own. In addition, you will see how many young people are really interested to your persona. Colleagues, neighbors, passers - endows each friendly smile or a flirtatious joke.
If the males in your surroundings a bit, try to register on a dating site. Local "natives" are not stingy with compliments and nice words. Of course, do not get too serious about such communication, but it really helps to raise self-esteem.
Own sense of charm and charisma make you different eyes to look at her lover. After all, the world is really a lot of beautiful, smart, strong, and most importantly - free and fair men.