To become the soul of the company, you need to have a broad outlook, to understand all the topics, at least superficially, to support any friend, you must constantly be "in the subject." Should relax and be yourself, just so you'll have to curry favor to him.
If you have any unique abilities, be sure to demonstrate them. No need to be ashamed and embarrassed by his actions, otherwise you will not show everyone what you really are, which is also very important. You can also slightly change their appearance to friends pay attention to you, and in the future you will be able to conquer their own abilities.
If the circle of your buddies planned a holiday, try to have fun, despite the problems and troubles that occur in your life. Relax in a good mood and with a smile on his face, which is sure to go all around. It's time to show your friends your talents, tell a few jokes or funny stories of interest, as well as hit present their skills. Believe me, it will not remain without attention of others, friends positively appreciate your contribution.
Show interest and other interlocutors, try to develop their topics of conversation, but not annoying them with his presence. Try to feel those who will communicate their interests and desires. Constantly improve their skills, develop, try to read more different literature to keep the conversation on any topic. The more you know and understand something, the faster your reputation in the community will increase, and you will achieve success in any event.