There are optimists, pessimists and there. The principal difference between them from one another is in looking at life. Optimist around trying to see the good, so it has this good in my life so much more. He is smiling, happy and cheerful, and all the bad and negative, even if it comes his way, passes for the simple reason that he did not notice. That's the kind of person lives happily ever after, and everything about him is good.
Pessimists all strictly opposite. Work is bad, grumpy wife, friends mediocre, back pain on the weekends, and favorite beer ceased to be so good as before. Such a person, if his life is anything good, persistently ignores it, paying attention only to what is bad, and literally makes himself suffer. It is not surprising that his constant whining and complaining of a self-fulfilling life pessimists themselves more trouble and continue to constantly make sure that there is no light is absolutely nothing good.
Oddly enough, these people are not only the general view of the life and problems, but also the fact that attract certain events, sometimes without realizing it. Imagine the following situation: you go to work in the morning and think that today you will find something quite amazing. Think about the beautiful day, the singing of birds and that work today, for sure, will be easy and interesting. You will come to work in a good mood and will be able to take up their case confidently and effortlessly.
Now imagine that your morning starts with the idea that the next day at work foolish will pull you out of all the vital juices and finally kill. The work you hard, today, most likely, it will be a lot, and generally you have a sore head, you do not want to live, and there is no consolation, except weekends and sleep. What do you think will pass your day in this case? Hardly as easy and enjoyable as the first.
Thoughts are material. All that you scroll through in your head, is embedded in the subconscious mind and determine the model of your future behavior. If we say that everything is bad - and all will be bad. And if you say that all is well - all eyes on getting better. In addition, no one has canceled such a thing as a positive attitude. You tune to win ahead of the competition, not to kill. How could it be otherwise?
Always remember one thing: positive thinking - the key to your success. And no matter what walk of life you are making plans. If you dream about love, think that you are beautiful, and men from you mad, and certainly not that so ugly nobody wants. If you want to lose weight, starting with the idea that you become slim, though it is, perhaps, will not be easy.
Drop phrases like: "It's too hard, I could not do it." Learn to formulate what think more positively, and then you all must succeed!