Do not belittle themselves and their own achievements. Sometimes, when you begin to praise you want to say that this is nonsense, that there is nothing special in the fact that you did. You should not behave this way. With dignity accept praise, but do not behave arrogantly. Know the price of themselves and proud of your abilities and skills.
Respect does not cause those people who urgently requires it to themselves, and those who value themselves and respectful to others. No education, no power, no money, no prestigious job should not be an excuse for you to allow themselves to rudeness towards those whom you consider inferior. Can not command respect people who are seen in the social, ethnic or racial discrimination.
Total respect cause holistic nature, those who did not change their principles and beliefs depending on political or other conditions. Do not think that others do not notice that your words are often at odds with the case that you behave dishonestly, seeking their own benefit. As a rule, it is impossible to hide. Therefore, neither of which respect for such a person out of the question.
If a person is friendly, does not attribute currently non-existent virtues, openly speaks his mind and does not naushnichaet, does not bend before the strong and the weak is not rude, keeps his word and is able to admit mistakes, then that person will always be respected. Working on yourself, you can do this, anyone make or teach it is not necessary - you will simply be respected.