Divorce is not only the termination of registered partnership, but any break of two people who have had a long and close relationship living together. Even if you are not in a divorce had to pass paperwork, emotional stress of separation you still experienced. Depending on who initiated the divorce, you should use its way out of the crisis.
If he left you. Should not be taken as your relationship is the meaning of life. This was the only episode that ended, to be followed by others, and life itself remains intact.
In this case, it is important to take all the free time chores and take care of yourself. Because now you can devote all his time to pleasure and business, for which there was no time or opportunity in marriage. Engage once abandoned hobbies, go on a romantic melodrama, which he did not like. Now you have the opportunity to live their lives.
It is also important to forgive and let go of this man, to memories of him does not cause unpleasant feelings and suffering. Think about the invaluable experience that you have when living with him, and after parting silently thanked him for this invaluable lesson.
If you left it. Not all is rosy in this case. Yes, you break a relationship that is no longer possible to tolerate, but still experiencing stress, guilt, begin to feel the emptiness of life and loneliness.
An important problem may be the inability to adjust to independent living. For example, if the husband is always dealt with problems with sewage, after the divorce, the wife can come to despair when blockages thereof. Think of independence as a chance to learn new things, gain important and useful skills.
For some reason considered to be guilty in the severance of relations is a woman, because she did not save your marriage. That this implies a sense of inferiority among divorced women. But in modern Western society has become clear that the family is supported by the efforts of two people: a husband and wife, and rightly so. After the divorce, you need to forget about finding someone to blame and look to the future.
The onset of freedom - a new opportunity to assess their past, their own mistakes and errors, to start a new life. Try to extract the maximum benefit from what happened and move on.