Do not turn in on themselves and do not push your friends and family. Try as much as possible out of the house so as not to be alone with his thoughts and fill your life with pleasant moments. Settle for trips to the theater, movies, field trips and just chat. Do not hesitate to ask for advice or support.
If you feel the need to escape, grab a book or watch any new film. Or you can come to grips with her figure. Another good way to forget about troubles - to concentrate on his career. And if because of lack of time, you had to throw a favorite hobby, then you can safely go back to it. In any case, personal interests, creativity and enthusiasm will help you become more confident.
If after parting you have a desire to take revenge or simply embarrass her ex-husband in the eyes of friends in common, give up the idea. Revealing the shortcomings of her husband in public, you do not expose yourself to the best hand, then the negative attitudes will be more to you than to the former spouse. In addition, the implementation of revenge make you load yourself with unnecessary feelings, which will only exacerbate stress. So try to forgive and forget all grudges and let go of all thoughts of her husband.
Assuming that met the new man will be able to forget the spouse, you doom yourself to failure. Do not hurry to find a replacement, otherwise you will constantly compare new partner with ex-husband that just do not have a positive effect on your relationship. A short, unsuccessful novels will only aggravate your condition. Wait until your state of mind will come back to normal.
Take my life for what it is, and try to find it as much as possible benefits. For example, think about the new opportunities that have opened in front of you and how many interesting hobbies can bring into your life. Expand social circle, set new goals, objectives, and feel free to go to them.