In a relationship with a man must learn to be observant. Of course, it's not easy when you are experiencing feelings, love a person reside permanently in an elevated state, endlessly worried and bored. So, of course, it is impossible to realize the most important - the true attitude of your beloved to you. You now and then require attention, waiting for when he comes, will call, enjoy the time spent with him, take offense at something, etc. Here, of course, in reality, there is no time to pay attention to the person who loves you, too (or dislikes). Just to show and prove their relationship to you it will be quite different.
For loving men will stand in the first place your emotional state. And it's not that he thus had not hurt you or let you down in some way (at least, it is very will try not to do that), but the fact that it is the most important fact that, in First of all, you want to. In other words, their needs, desires, ambitions and resentments it will overshadow. And if a man feels that you are on some occasion worried, upset, he will do everything to fix it.
A man who loves to be around to support you. He will always be glad your successes, initiatives and aspirations. And your ideas, even if they seem to him the most delusional, he will discuss them and help you implement them. It is unlikely that he will ever accept your luck, promotion, starting a business, or just a normal hobby with hostility. He would, in any case, will be happy for you.
Sincere feelings a person can still recognize the way he reacts to your problems. If he is always indifferent to them by any means trying to avoid them, he does not love you. And there is no other explanation for it, because the man who loves you always support you, calm down and try to help.
Pay attention to what he does for you. A man in love is obsessed with constantly surprise you, delight and give gifts (even if it is limited in its capabilities). And whatever it was a snob and a pragmatist, he will still give you a surprise, because he truly loves you. He will try to do everything to make you happy and be happy.
Of course, all men are not the same, and you should not all fit under this framework. But if your man meets at least two of them, then do your best to understand and appreciate, not to harm your relationship with their ridiculous claims and the words: "You do not love me."