How to move a betrayal

How to move a betrayal
 At the very beginning of the two lovers think that it is forever and nothing can dampen their life together. But the relationship and love always meet on the way the test. And it is much more difficult to go through them, if these tests are created loved one. Do I have to fight to keep the relationship or better break? How to forgive the one who betrayed?
 True love covers all. That's just easy and effort over the process of healing relationships impossible. The best thing you can do in the beginning, after they learned about the change partner - it is calm. Emotions during the crisis - this is the worst enemy of any person. And if you succumb to the first impulse, then you can make the most terrible things than your partner or fiancee. Not to succumb to the annoyance and not want revenge, wait for some time with friends or relatives. Does not necessarily tell them what had happened, think of something, but the main Stay some time alone with him.

It is natural to be in such a period to seek help from a specialist. Professional psychologist can help you not to get depressed and at the same time get rid of negative emotions. Thanks to the participation of another person, you might be able to in another look at the situation and did not perceive all become so painful. Parallel to occupy yourself with something that you like best or what you've always wanted. This can be a hobby or a sport, just a week in shopping.

After the emotions calm down, and the first pain will pass, you will need to talk openly with your partner and find out what exactly was the reason for committing him or her. It is possible that in some ways there's your fault. This, of course, in no way takes responsibility with the "criminal." But such a scenario can help both of you to take the path of rapprochement, if you both really want this. In any conflict both sides are guilty and you should not pass the buck to one. Be critical to yourself, too, and try to understand what you want. If the partner sincerely repents, are you ready to forgive him and give him a chance again?

Tags: attitude, cheating partner