If you have left, but the feelings do not go, start companionship. In the process it becomes clear whether the former misses on relations with you for a long time and forgot about them. The perfect excuse to start a conversation - to congratulate the person on the holiday. You can use any - birthday, February 23, New Year, even the day Russia. Call us and let us know what kind wishes. Then ask how things were going, what the former partner as conducting evening. Suggest to talk, go to the movies or cafes. Talk smoothly and quietly, do not show emotion. Let people make sure you are not configured to swear and sort things out. Then he will definitely agree on a date. And maybe love will come back again to your pair.
The most common mistake made by the abandoned girl phone "terrorism". The former do not give time to calmly reflect on the situation. They are prevented from constant calls, messages, shouts into the phone and saying claims. To do so in any case not worth it. Such behavior would lead to a final rupture of relations and provoke him in the event that the young man doubted continue communication or not.