There is a certain category of people who all his life striving for the ideal. All my idea of perfection. Some want to achieve physical ideal, others seek spiritual comfort. However, the most important in achieving this goal is motivation. That it will be the engine that will advance you to the target.
If you explicitly set a goal, but trying to achieve it dropped by half, it means weak motivation. To reach the ideal need to have enough self-discipline and patience. Personal Progress is a fairly lengthy process. For example, you want to have a great outlook. To achieve this, you need to identify a number of problems. Read at least two hours a day. Of course, we are talking about reading the classics, modern literature, and not glossy magazines. It is also necessary to visit museums, exhibitions at least twice a month. If you perform these tasks, then after two or three months, your level will increase significantly.
The most difficult thing is not to throw it towards the goal in the middle of the process. Most people can not reach the goal, as they lose motivation or she weakens. Should always be backed their desires. Think about your goals to improve yourself as a person on a daily basis. If you happen to reach it, you will get certain advantages. Your self-esteem will increase significantly. Repeat positive affirmations, such as "I have the desire and the inner strength to achieve the goal." Repeat your positive affirmations often, with faith and nesting in them their feelings.
Constantly raise the bar. You will be able to reach even greater heights. But do not forget to praise themselves for achievements. Appreciate their achievements, even the smallest. People often focus on in their blunders and failures, rather than on the achievements. This is fundamentally wrong. Failure should be treated as an experience, even negative. For every bit of success you have to appreciate and praise yourself. And very soon you will become the ideal, which itself drew.