Personal life: what to tell and to whom?

Personal life: what to tell and to whom?
 Each person has a few laps of communication - one larger, the other narrower. This is his family, colleagues, friends, neighbors, fellow travelers. Someone appears briefly, with someone you are communicating life. Depending on this, you choose the strategy of behavior and topics for discussion. In addition to personal preference, the choice is necessary to focus on some of the rules that determine the appropriateness of certain topics of conversation.

First Circle - close

It is believed that with the closest people - my husband, parents and children, we can talk about everything. However, this is not quite true. Of course, your family people are always ready to listen to your testimony, take them and divide. But do not exploit this readiness, do not use it too often. Learn to prioritize. In a typical situation better if the main topic of conversation will be owned areas where common interests lie. If you want to share the emotions associated with the work, information should be dosed in accordance with how much you need in frank conversation and how to set a hearing family. If we formulate a general conclusion, we can say that the taboo to talk with loved ones, but there are undesirable for some discussion time and mood.

Second Circle - other relatives

Taboo topics for discussion with distant relatives - it's quite a complex area. On the one hand, they are also your family. On the other hand, you do not always can say that you know all his relatives. It is impossible to give a general recipe, since the degree of strength of family ties in each individual family, but there is one rule, which is better to hold conversations. Limit the range of not taboo, but the depth of discussion. You can talk about almost everything but the most intimate problems, but how much detail and you will fully depict life situations, depends only on the degree of trust.

Third circle - friends

Is it possible with friends to discuss any topic? You can. But is not necessary. As a rule, your friends are more likely to take one or two niche of your life and excluded from the other. And in conversations should stick to one simple rule: taboo subjects from the general niches do not exist, while others affect only the best in case of real necessity. Here is an example. Your high school sweetheart hardly seem entertaining retelling of love stories of all your classmates, if you have done in different universities. However, if you need advice, she always listened to you and support you.

Fourth circle - friends

People with whom you do not associate a trust relationship may be interested in words the details of your personal life. However, it is not necessary to disclose to them all the secrets, even if they seem to be genuinely interested in it. Limit your personal space and deny themselves to discuss their children, parents, spouses with outsiders. You would hardly have been pleased to know that your husband or wife tell of your deeds of others, is not it?

Fifth circle - Colleagues

Previous rule applies to the work group, although not with such severe restrictions. Depending on the degree of cohesion of your group, you can slightly open to others their personal space. Moreover, not only can, but even better if you allow yourself to some degree intimate frankness. Absolute restraint is regarded by others as snobbery and pride. Digging into memory, you are sure to find a few innocuous facts that you can share with others.

Sixth Circle - Travel

These are people who can tell you all, but only if you really want. You will soon parted, never to see them, but traveler's stories are quickly forgotten.

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