Banish apathetic state will smile. Try experimenting with passers-by. If you see a man with frowning brows, just smile to him. Most likely, a passerby stops to frown and smile in response. If your loved one is sad, and you can not help, as often as possible tell him you love him. Awareness of self-worth on the ground helps a person understand that he needed to those who loved him. If he wants to be alone, do so wish, but never let him feel lonely.
Do not hesitate to pay compliments, but Know how to distinguish them from the flattery. Compliment - something nice that you want to tell the person from the heart, sincerely, free of charge. But people are very flattered to get the benefit. But if you really want to raise someone feel good, do not be like flatterers. To compliment from your sense was praise for something specific: a look, look, lovely children, a successful performance, etc.
Make a person a pleasant surprise. This can be an original gift, travel, fireworks in his honor, or simply made his own thing. The main thing to know that for a given set of circumstances really appreciate it or be able to distract from the doldrums. Sometimes, to set the mood quite tasty to feed a person or perform one of his promises.