If at the beginning of the last century, a working woman was a rarity, now surprising woman with an unblemished workbook. Moreover, if the "seat" of the house because of the many children, due to illness or due to lack of education one not particularly surprising, the young beautiful housewife with a good education does not fit into the conventional stereotypes.
Some think that housewives are spiritually immature and not very educated women with low self-esteem. Others defend the idea that every woman (with rare exceptions) wants to take her husband's neck and did not work. Argue with the fact that the described motifs characteristic of the fairer sex, silly. However, these two types of diversity of female characters does not end - because women are not just sacrificed themselves, and who have found themselves outside the traditional career ladder, not too little. So what are they qualified modern housewife?
Type the first "Housewife by vocation"
For her, the word "family home" and "home comfort" is not an empty phrase, but the most important thing in life. Study and work is just stages of life, lead-in to the marriage.
At school, this type usually learns diligently, but without much enthusiasm, and then without gloss finishes mediocre university. But at school parties, while others put on the table purchased sweets brought her masterpiece of confectionary art, showered with compliments, and aprons and skirts sewn on the lessons of labor, successfully compete with local couture.
Housewives vocation dearly love mom boys of appropriate age, occasionally sighing: "Where is he looks! There is such a treasure. " Eat well (through the efforts of my mother) son, however, women are more interested in not cooking skills and bust size. Therefore, housewives by calling, usually married second wife and grown up men hlebnuvshie disorder.
After the wedding, the young wife is usually pretty quickly leaves the job, but to reproach her for it no one will - the husband and the children usually doted in a friendly and caring happy women realize their dream of home and family.
Type the second "Housewife of convenience"
Here, emotions are not running the show - life trajectory calculation is based solely on the principles of rationality. Teacher clutching his head when perfectly understands some things Malyavka says that the other does not teach, because it they will not be useful.
Profession these girls usually choose consciously, without the pursuit of fashionable specialties, so much so that the work is not peretruzhdaetsya. If after lengthy calculations do housework would be better than to work (save for the nurse, earning extra comfort for her husband, etc.), this type as rationally will buy the products in the most favorable places to learn the intricacies of compensation paid taxes and garner conservation .
Future husband usually pecks on non-stereotypical thinking girl, not particularly interested in the opinions of others. However, after several years of marriage, not too emotional housewife on the calculation can be changed to a more gentle and respects his wife half. If a strong base for the man the most important manifestations of affection, then it is guaranteed a long union. However, if the gap does take place, this type of woman will think again and find an acceptable way out for themselves, for example, shake off the dust with a diploma.
Type the third "bezdelnitsy"
Master of truancy lessons and artistic forging signatures of parents in the diary, a storehouse of sob story on "Why I missed school," gradually turns into a series of mini-performances under the title "So I did not give a term." First bezdelnitsa somehow creeps from class to class, then from course to course. Learning usually exclusively for gay student life. The hostel it is seen more often than in the classroom, the main goal - quickly jump to marry, to have been for someone to shift their problems.
Bezdelnitsy even hardly be called a housewife - lunch from her semi-finished products, cleaning once a month, and strange beasts, nicknamed "Iron" tamed husband or mother. If the family can afford a housekeeper, and an idle so beautiful to the limitations of its interests go by the wayside, or husband worships the soul in children, the family saved some time. Children also have an idle usually appear to justify doing nothing or tying husband. However, as a mother, this type is usually not too straining, passing child grandparents or babysitters.
Family bezdelnitsy, along with "hot spots" bitch and careerists - Smithy future husbands housewives vocation.
Type the fourth "sacrificial nature"
It was her twenty years ago you wrote off homework, and then "fired" cribs. This type renounce in favor of first love girlfriend, Childcare all relatives, and will always return no later than nine to mom not to worry.
The sacrificial nature is always ready to help and to all, even when its interests are infringed. She usually likes to study and work - because her kindness and reliability are always in demand by others. But if the daughter starts to get cold often in kindergarten, and her husband earn gastritis due to malnutrition, the favorite thing is retracted and all the powers given to the benefit of the family. Sacrificial nature all the strength and soul of investing in others. They often grow very successful children - sports champions, polyglots, great musicians ... or superegoisty. Often this type of women are victims of the tyranny of her husband, without any reason, do they work, and to defend their rights sacrificial nature will not.
The main problem lies in the sacrificial natures of their own compliance - on the verge of losing their own self is not always well received by the second half of that at some point may want to "thrill".
Type fifth "adrift"
Favorite words "It so happened that ...". Life, filmed in slow motion on black and white film. Family photo: Masha is five years, first grader here, then graduate. School close to home, do go along with his girlfriend. The same friend introduces the guys and the bride whispers: "You just decided that you need him? ".
Then everything goes anyhow. Any friction in the family - adrift before the final break will be waiting for the magic to resolve the situation, and then irrigate another's vest with the words, "Why me? ". Of the benefits - rock the family boat this type will not be exact. The ideal partner for the man who likes to solve everything himself.
Type sixth "Mama"
It is not a housewife by vocation and not a sacrificial nature. She - Mother. Girl with a toy stroller and bobblehead, sister, who will not give anyone the right to walk with the baby.
Women do not usually mothers by age judiciously. Often in educational motivation, there are two motives: to my children I did not hesitate or I'll best and progressive. Typically, these women choose medicine, psychology and other "social" sector. Relationship same building or a strong man, promises to be a "stone wall" and support his wife and children, or with the spineless type, playing the role of the first and the Eternal Son.
Unless the case of financial crises, after the birth of their first child, "mother" left work forever - they want a lot of children and their upbringing "mom" a real pleasure. Women of this type usually love their husbands, or at least thank them for motherhood, but at some point, the spouse can withdraw them by the wayside.
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