Once you find out about the betrayal of a loved one, take it easy. Do not panic, screaming, etc. Sit down and think about how best to behave in this situation. In most cases, it is a choice of two solutions: to forgive or to quit. However, in no case do not take a final decision under the influence of the first emotions.
First, you must understand that physical infidelity for men - it is nothing. Such actions they explain nature, rooted in nenotipe. Another thing, if the other woman was able to take possession of feelings, thoughts and emotions of your partner. In such a situation, of course, there may be additional problems.
Men are so arranged that their campaign "left" is not regarded as a betrayal. Often, such an act driven by the desire to diversify their sex life, self-assertion, the missing impressions, etc. If you sincerely believe that your relationship can be saved, and the partner wants to return to the family, it is worth trying just love. In order to "lost sheep" back to their native home, remember a few rules:
A man does not need to know about your feelings and emotions to the point exactly where the entire plan to return will not be ready.
Do not stop communicating, try to keep the full sexual relations, etc. In this case, a man will have no reason to look for it again on the side.
Give him a chance to talk about change. Maybe he lied only to protect your feelings. Give a man to understand that you truly want to know the truth.
Try to convince him to eternity your feelings, relationships, etc. To do this, make plans, plan the budget with the expectation of the coming years.
In order to restore good relations between loving people, you need to spend a lot of time and effort. You have to talk to each partner openly as possible, to find out the hidden feelings and desires partner needs to know, etc.