Not surprisingly, the first love is considered to be true, most pure and selfless. But you need to consider one thing. Even if you can return the feelings that bind you and the person you once loved, if you can do to meet these "new old" relationship? After all, you're not going to argue that experience imposes on man its mark. People change, along with their desires and needs.
Therefore, before thinking of joining in the fight for his first lover, consider who it is you want to return? Togo young, ardent lover boy or already matured man with his outlook on life? Keep in mind, this may be completely different people. You will fight for the romantic ideal, and only get frustrated.
If you believe that your loved one has not changed, and remained the same as your desire to be close to him, then go for it. Keep your sense of self-esteem, do not try to bring back a loved one, or persuasion, especially as blackmail. Respect yourself.
Be honest. If you are separated for a long time, then you should tell the person openly about their feelings. The fact that you remembered him and could not help comparing all the men who were with you after (if indeed it is) with him. This will flatter your chosen one. Just do not overdo it in detail and detail when you describe his past relationship with someone. Man is unlikely to enjoy listening to.
You must be sure that your lover is also (perhaps unconsciously, or at heart) you remembered and missed. Because true love never goes away completely. It may take passion, people can separate the circumstances, but the memory of the heart durable.
Take care of yourself and more engaged their internal state. Only full and harmonious personality can draw attention to themselves. Tantrums, intrigues and anger you are unlikely to achieve something. Become her lover for the most desirable object that it is for you. Then everything will turn out.