Men in most cases very clearly distinguish flirting, romance, from a long life together. And the very qualities of women who are simply irreplaceable in the first case, the second scare! It is one thing - a mistress who was willing to forgive and moods and mood swings, and even some bitchiness, selfishness, quite another - a legal wife in which man first of all appreciate the kindness, understanding, tolerance, caring.
That is the first rule: try to get the man the impression that you're the kind, understanding, patient and caring.
Any woman is more emotional, prone to mood swings than a man. For many reasons, including - purely physiological. Men know this and try to treat with understanding. But their patience is not endless! And hysteria - one of the most unforgivable, repulsive female qualities in the eyes of men, especially strong-willed, reserved. It just infuriates them.
The second rule is: when dealing with men, keep yourself in hand! Especially in those "days." Remember: they are female hysteria akin to torture.
Widespread prejudice that men are afraid of smart, erudite women. Like, next to the silly even unremarkable man feels himself a true genius and intelligent woman society immediately evokes in him fear for his authority complexes.
In some cases, this is true. But as a rule, are much more likely confuse and irritate female stupidity.
Therefore, the third rule: do not hesitate to his mind and his abilities, do not hide them! If you are somewhat understand better - do not get too clearly show it, especially in front of others.
Now twenty-first century, customs and practices which liberal than were until recently. However, any man - even the most calm and restrained - by nature, the owner of everything that comes to love. And he could not bear the thought that his lover was dear to someone else.
The fourth rule: in any case, under any circumstances, do not bring with him about his previous novels! Let memories - both pleasant and not so - will your female mystery.
If you truly want to become your man for the right, indispensable - keep these simple rules!