Do not treat male puncture at his own expense. Lack of knowledge about the real causes of this problem makes men a woman feel guilty, sometimes confused, confusion, anger.
Faced with impotence, you feel humiliated, do you think that a loved one lost to you sexual interest or suspect that he has a mistress. In any case, the man asking provocative questions, you will only worsen his morale. In this situation, the man insulting your hints, he sees them as an attack, and can be closed involuntarily. The result is a risk of this conflict, and your pair will come to a crisis in the relationship or divorce.
Do not be silent, pretending that nothing is happening. This is also a sure way to ruin relationships.
Do not go to extremes. Do not be overly assertive in questioning or actions. Make greater efforts to excite the partner is not worth it, it can have an opposite effect.
Try to openly discuss the existing problem with your partner. But this is best done immediately after an unsuccessful sex, but after some time. Try to gently suggest to contact her husband to the doctor.
Try not to tell the man that his sexual inadequacy is not important to you, and you it anyway love. Experts recommend instead to find a means of preserving your intimacy by resorting to alternative methods. Perhaps this is a case where the initiator of intimacy you have become.