If the thoughts are not left alone, but again and again returned to the rainbow past, when you were at the site, try to use these points for the benefit of themselves. Try to remember past wrongs, carefully search the shortcomings in this man. It is possible that you will be able to look at your relationship from a different angle and find something that you just push away and cool the ardor of love. But clearly, that the whole healing process will take some time and you will have to put a lot of effort. Think about what you're spending this time with someone who just is not worthy of you. The thought of it just prevent you from getting the joy and happiness of this life. And then, perhaps, love will replace the feeling of rejection.
In any case, no matter how painful this process proceeded, here we can also find the benefit for themselves. This is a good time to start something new. You probably already have long dreamed of vacation. Allow yourself to relax on the beach outside the country. Let your life will start to fill new friends, interests, hobbies. You are quite self-sufficient person that is able to live without someone's presence. And most importantly, remember that as long as your heart is occupied by a man who does not need this place, there never will be one who is ready to become the object of your passion and loyalty. And in this case someone is willing to answer you the same.