Relations with the young man should not interfere with your negative attitudes about men. Forgive your ex gentlemen, if they caused you offense. You can do this in person, but you can mentally. Imagine ex-boyfriend, thank him for his time spent together, with the experience that he gave you. Say that you forgive him. Then imagine that the young man is waving your hand and walks away. If you can not say goodbye to the negative attitude yourself, contact a therapist. Do not do this step - can not build a happy and cloudless relations, as they find a place and your doubts.
You must have the financial capacity to meet the guy. It is not necessary to draw their dreams oligarch who sees you certainly fall in love, will take away a mansion, will buy clothes, drive to restaurants and pay for learning English. And the young man unlikely to be interested girl who sees it only as a source of their own well-being. Try to have the opportunity to look good on a date and at least the first time to pay your own coffee.
Get rid of meaningless relationships for you. In order to find her prince, to be free woman. If you have a boyfriend, with whom you are meeting only in order to pass the dreary evening, to clarify the situation and rasstantes with him. Otherwise meaningless for you communication can prevent the emergence of a real relationship.