Throw unpleasant thoughts who visit your head and never themselves do not scold. Perhaps we should heed the words of smart people who say that thoughts have the ability to materialization? Try to think of themselves only in a positive way. This does not mean that it is possible to perform any actions, just look for a good.
Waking up in the morning, do not forget to give a smile at her reflection in the mirror. Scientists argue that it runs the complex mechanisms in the cerebral cortex that affect your attitude. When the smile will cease to be a rare and occasional guests on your face, you will see that the world is not so bad, and you're in it not being too much.
Follow the advice of psychologists who recommend starting each day with pleasant thoughts, good care of your body and easy, delicious breakfast.
Hopelessness and pessimism often cause unmade things, a thick layer of dust on the floor and furniture, the dominance of a huge number of unnecessary things around you.
Pay attention to your home: throw all the trash, wipe off the dust, wipe the floor with a damp cloth. Your mood will rise necessarily, if you add in the water some essential oils (jasmine, rose, mint, orange, etc.).
Look at your surroundings. If you see every day just sour and sad faces and hear the constant moaning about the failures and difficulties, there is nothing surprising in the fact that you begin to spoil life and yourself. You can try to help his girlfriend to calm down and rebuild its relation to what is happening, but if she prefers to just whine and complain, you are on the way. Try to choose bridesmaids and friends who are optimistic about the world.
Charge yourself with positive: Surround yourself with pleasant things, more often and enjoy the beauties of nature, see positive movies, listen to jokes and funny stories, include the cheerful music and find for themselves a labor of love that will not let your soul boredom and fatigue.