Now carefully analyze the list. So you can find out exactly what you need to achieve the desired. If you need to work some new knowledge or skills, make an appropriate courses. Remember that the road is made up of small steps.
You should not complain. Yes, if you are haunted by failure, life is not going well, and happy future does not even smell - that's no reason to blame other people or circumstances. Remember that in most cases, each person complains that he can change. People rarely spend hours talking about bad weather or global cataclysms. But on sloppy or lazy husband employee, spoiling life, they can chat for hours. Only you can arrange your own life.
Resist the stereotypical thinking - try to give it up. Pay no attention to what they say about you neighbors or unfamiliar people, because they do not know about you. You're not going to follow a lifetime chuzhym principles and obey public opinion.
If you do not like your job, then just change it. If you do not like your home, make repairs, buy a new set of dinnerware or paste over the room with new wallpaper. Start changing your life for the better, and you will see that it really is easy.
Sometimes in life there are difficult turning points. They happen to everyone. And if you think that there is no escape, think about the people that you value, and those who cherish you. In the world there are always people who love you and are always willing to support.