One of the difficult aspects of relationships - always see only the good partner. It's easy enough at the beginning of family life, when you are both soar on the wings of love, and just did not notice any flaws in each other. But time passes, and you begin to see each other with new eyes, noticing the different flaws and bend things. Only the unconditional acceptance of each other's family is able to preserve warm relations forever. It takes effort and manifestations of loyalty, but gives a guarantee that it will be the only marriage, not once. And do not try to change the partner, because everyone has the right to have defects in the character, the way of life. Great victory when you realize that the person learned to love it for what it is, not the way you wanted it to be.
If there is a misunderstanding, the best cure for this - openness and honesty. That sincerity and openness can protect two loving hearts of both of them to have been defeated as a result of this relationship. It is not given to everyone, but love - this is the kind of thing that needs to pay for itself a certain price, and then gives a reward strong happy family.