Sometimes the error is the woman her choice, that she agreed to marry the wrong man. For example, some of the ladies think they can fix her husband after marriage, and re-take the alcoholics, sissy, gigolos, etc. The one that had once burned on it in the future should choose only reliable, loving, loyal man who is worth loving the way it is. Another error is related to the choice of a hasty decision: Sometimes a girl agrees to marry a man she did not love because of pressure from relatives or, even worse, to avenge other fans. Do not learn the lessons, some of them make the mistake again, she married the first counter immediately after a divorce just to spite the former spouse. It is unlikely that such a decision will lead to a successful outcome.
According to the observations of psychologists, people often instinctively choose partners with common features, and not always positive. For example, if a girl taught from childhood that the main man in the family and he can do anything, it is possible that it chooses a husband domineering man who would suppress her will, and perhaps even engage in physical abuse. If the marriage ended in divorce yet, it makes sense to take a closer look at the new boyfriend is there not in it the same despotism.