BDSM - not an easy topic, in an article to tell you about it only briefly. Abbreviation has three meanings, each of which stands a pair of characters. BD - which means bondage and discipline, DS - dominants and sabmmissiv (subordination and domination), and SM - sadomasochism.
The representative of the culture BDSM called all the other "vanilla" people. But today, the difference between them is becoming increasingly illusory: every sex shop you can buy handcuffs and other attributes of hardcore sex, many couples decide to try them or something else like that. Such ornaments as tattoos, piercings and different metal and leather collars and bracelets, also have appeared from the world of BDSM.
Bondage and discipline - this sphere of culture BDSM means binding a variety of ways. Sex game takes place on the conditions under which a related person to break the rules must be punished. One partner is the Lord, and the other during the action depends on it completely. This scenario assumes perfect partners trust each other. Both realize their secret desires and enjoy the game.
Dominance and submission - this scenario often goes beyond the sexual pleasures, extending to the life of a couple. One partner dominates and the other obeys - this can be seen quite often.
Sadomasochism - a special kind of sexual games in which one person gets pleasure from the pain, and the other - from its infliction. All aspects of BDSM-in specific cases intersect with each other, for example, bondage and sadomasochism often combine.
Most importantly, in cooperation based on BDSM - this mutual consent and pleasure of such a relationship. The basic principles of "themes": the voluntary, safe and reasonable approach. Partners, before you start the game, stipulate the conditions out and forbidden things that are not allowed to do during the game. Despite the fact that during one of the people will be subjected to humiliation, it is actually based on a deep mutual respect.
It is interesting that most people have secret sexual desires somehow resonates with sphere BDSM. But many people do not realize how widespread this culture covers various manifestations of sexual life.