If the parents against the favorite ...

 Of course, the situation in which relatives are unhappy with your selection, can not be called pleasant. The first thought that comes to mind - to dismiss the views of relatives and do as dictated by his own heart, because you are old enough to make important decisions on their own. Take your time! Dislike relatives to your chosen one - a reason to think carefully and try to find a way out of this situation.

Whatever it was, the parents - is the most close and native people, and even if, wishing you well, they hurt you, go with them into open conflict, at least, unwise. After all, you probably have not just need their participation and support.
In addition, parents stating that their opinion does not interest you, and you can choose your own, you automatically put an end to their good relationship with your chosen one in the future. It is likely, after a while they could find a common language and even friends, but open warfare of you deprive them of that opportunity.

Try to reject emotions and listen to what they say about your beloved family. Did he really minded, spender or a careerist? It is likely that, looking from the outside, your parents were able to more objectively assess the shortcomings of your partner. In this case, you need to decide whether you are ready to take these qualities in your favorite?

It is possible that you have with their parents just a different view of things, and some of the "shortcomings" of the elect those you do not think. For example, impermissible, from the standpoint of the older generation, extravagance, as you evaluate the ability to broad gestures and gladly accept this line in your favorite.

Wanting to improve relations with parents, you need to speak frankly with them. Reassure them, explain what you objectively evaluate the elect and see his good qualities and disadvantages. And your outlook on life are the same, and you are willing to put up with even weaknesses favorite.

Try to find common ground between the lover and parents. He loves football? Well, you can buy tickets and, taking with him pope, three to go to the stadium. And maybe he loves dogs or well versed in the art, as your mom. It is always possible to find common interests and to try to bring together the most expensive you people.

However, it may well be that the parents in this situation are right, because they, more than anyone, know you and may notice in your admirer those qualities that you will not be tolerated. In any case, take your time with the wedding, take a look at his handpicked successor - when first passion subside, you will appreciate it more objectively.