It is important not to confuse immaturity and childishness. Crazy and reckless actions peculiar people sometimes serious, anyone can get bored constantly stay focused.
Infantilism - a particular kind of character. The reasons may be different, most often it is due to the peculiarities of education. Such people are not capable of making a serious decision, they can not focus on one problem and solve it. Usually, they do not tend to solve problems, and wait until everything will be fine by itself. Of course, so nothing is solved, and then Infante just decides that he does not carry.
You can easily recognize the infantile man. He behaves like a spoiled child, requires a lot, but he is not ready to give anything in return. Relationship with this man is difficult to maintain, because he is not ready to take on any responsibility. Just spending time with them can be quite fun, as such men often have a wide range of interests, with them there is always something to talk about. But as soon as you want something more, not to mention family and children, as it is of interest to you immediately somewhere lost.
Usually infantile man, after all, start a family with strong women who have to pull your earnings and life, constantly indulging the whims of her husband, boy. The same, in turn, at this time will be involved in the next adventure, spending his wife's money.
If you met on the way a fan, of course you can try to change his character, but, in most cases, this idea is doomed to failure. After infantile men often do not want to change for the better. Their fully triples situation.
Shot at redemption is at that man who recognizes his faults and wants to improve. You will have a difficult job, and the main difficulty lies in the fact that you have to forget about what you are - a strong and confident woman. Allow yourself to be weak, give him the initiative. Try not to tell him how to act, just point it easily. Most likely, the first time will be quite heavy. But, you may be able to ensure that your man will be for you thus shoulder to lean on sometimes so eager to even the most powerful women.