Remember all your dreams, which you had before I met him. And all the goals that you have rejected as inadmissible for non-free women. Go to work strip dancer - please write the book - excellent, it will not interfere with the focus on the work, to defend his dissertation - now you can sit in the library instead of plenty of culinary pleasures, consuming half a day. And on weekends, you can go where you want, and not adjust to it. Wanted to fly to Haiti - a great dream for which you want to work on them and get a better paying job. It's much easier when life is not hamstrung. Dreams are waiting for you, you can become what always wanted.
You can solve the problem on the principle of "like cures like." Look for a man who will be more suitable for you. It's not just the agency and dating sites. It is also a thematic forums. If you want to change their place of residence, look for a new man in another city or state. Will have the opportunity to learn another language, a new society and other customs. This is very interesting, a new way of life will quickly forget the rupture of relations.