Russian society in the vast majority still has a negative attitude towards gays, so many people prefer to hide their orientation, have mistresses, and sometimes wives. In this case, you can reward your former epithet, which the common people call homosexuals, but not for orientation and for what use you for their own purposes.
It may be that the person with whom you are in love, bisexual. He fell in love with you, and after some time, met a man with whom he had a love affair. Situations in which the partners to part with their halves and find other, are very frequent. In your case only changed the characters, but the result is the same.
How to respond to a situation depends only on you, your attitude to same-sex unions, and your sense of humor. Can laugh at absurd twists and turns of fate and remain friends with her ex and his new hobby. In this case, you will have and with whom to go shopping, and the two men who if anything can and fix the faucet, and throw in a car. You can forget a relationship with ex-boyfriend like a bad dream and forbid friends and family to use his name in your presence. The only thing you should not do is to try to bring the former. If he really likes men, all your efforts to instruct a traitor on the right path is doomed to failure.