Do not think constantly about what you want to attract love into your life. This will prevent you see people who are also in need. And they may need support, care and comfort. If you focus only on their feelings and experiences, you just can not help them. This does not mean that you need to immediately drop everything, go volunteer in Africa. Positive attitude towards people just said encouraging words, a typical gesture of friendship - more from you and will not be required. And in the eyes of others you will become a person who has an open and loving heart.
However, on the other hand, do not be dedicated only in order to please others. Everything is good in moderation, because people are different, and your desire to help one and all can cause a desire to sit near to you on the neck, and in the future - a sarcastic grin. And you must love yourself before finding true love. If the person himself pleasant (not proud of the fact that he is so good, and he was really nice to be good) - it can cause only respect. And after often comes respect and love.
Where it can be found? If you are not used to sit on the ground, actively and, probably, anywhere. Not only in classical looking for - cinemas, theaters, clubs, but also at work, school, shops and even on an Internet forum. More walk, communicate with interesting people and try to get you and they are also interested. A man with an open loving heart, able to timely support and other conversation and always will be the most charming and attractive.