Do not forget the simple truth - time heals. So, soon will come and everything will be happy times. And do not be surprised that after a long relationship gap is so painful. It's all going through. And you too will experience.
First of all, stop fantasizing. If you are soberly aware that the chances for the continuation of the novel is not, forbid themselves to represent the happy scenes together. Hang on a wrist band and pull the it, slapped his hand every time the thoughts return again. So quit smoking, that is struggling with addiction. Namely addiction and you are suffering.
Remove anything that reminds you of the past. It is not necessary for all destroy any relationship with him, but let the joint photograph, the number in the phonebook, sms, gifts will not be constantly in front of you.
Be honest with yourself. Today, it seems that everything was perfect. But, of course, there were quarrels, some former habits annoy you. He - an ordinary man, not your only destiny. Remember that.
Your say about your feelings. If you still have grievances, write them a letter. But do not send it. Sign a blog, where every day describe your emotions and thoughts. When you give this information to the paper, it will cease to occupy your mind.
Engage yourself. Suppose you have no time for unnecessary thoughts. Completely changed - from the exterior to the interests. Find a hobby, friends, start to move towards its goal. In the end, just load themselves with work - then to the personal experience of time left.