Audialy, on the contrary, prefer to listen. Women often are of this type. Visuals speak for themselves. These are the people who need only the outward manifestation of the partner and the world.
Now you need to determine what type of you. Perhaps you combine 1 or 2 of psychological kind. It's OK. Then analyze what kind of thinking is typical for your boyfriend or husband. If he, for example, kinestet, then it is important to feel constantly touching, hugging, kissing. Let's exactly what he wants.
If it refers to the visual psychological type, you should pay more attention to their appearance. Try to look neat and in a good mood. Then you will cause in your partner only positive emotions. This will help you quickly understand each other. In short, trying to communicate in their own language.
Explain to your partner all of the above principles, so that he, too, learned to understand you. If you audial, tell him that you enjoy listening to compliments in his address, approval and praise. Gradually, with practice, you will be able to adapt to each other psycho.
Find a common goal in life. It is important to always know where and what to move. When it is taken for both partners to achieve a certain task becomes much easier. This can be a common hobby or business project. In addition, as long as you are passionate about the work, you simply will not physically time for quarrels and disagreements, as you will have the responsibility to yourself and your family. Work on a common enterprise will help you better understand each other.