What is the way out of this situation? We must learn to manage time. And so the child in any case did not feel unnecessary, abandoned. If possible, a woman is better to procure himself a free schedule or go part-time. Of course, this could affect the income of the family, but the love and trust of the child to the mother, too, is worth something! After all, the baby can not explain that my mother did not pay attention to it because a lot of work for his own good. He will make a simple and logical to a conclusion: Mom did not love him more. With all its consequences.
Another problem - as chronic fatigue. Even hardworking, hardy woman can literally "fall to the ground." This is not only bad for her health, but also goes to the detriment of work and family life.
What's the solution? It is necessary to resort to someone's aid. Well, when there are grandparents who are willing to take over part of the responsibilities for babysitting. If they are not likely to have to resort to the help of a nanny. An indispensable condition: like mother or needed help, in any case can not hire a nanny to the first comer. It is necessary to be sure that it is not only in good faith, but really loves children.
There is another problem often occurs in young, inexperienced mothers. In the case where the family well provided and in no need (for example, if the husband takes a paying job), you may receive the ordeal to quit work and become a housewife. Especially if she has heard from girlfriends: "Oh, if only to sit at home! ".
What can I say about this? Of course, and housekeeping - work. Still, hardly worth close to four walls. As the woman will inevitably limit and your social circle, and the prospect of its growth (not only career, but also intellectual).