Problems of working moms: how to deal with them

Problems of working moms: how to deal with them
 Times when the main (and often only) breadwinner husband would have gone in the past. The vast majority of women are now also works sometimes and makes a major contribution to the family budget. Of course, when a girl is preparing to become a mother, she is forced in the last months of pregnancy to stop working. But as a rule, some time after birth the young mother resumes employment. It was then that it is waiting for a lot of problems.
 The main problem, which complains bitterly 99% of women - a chronic lack of time. Mother has literally "torn" - because it is necessary to direct and perform the duties and carry home, and pay attention to her husband, and take care of yourself. And the main thing - to try to be a good, caring mother, that is to spend time with your child! Many women in this period of bitter regret that in the day of 24 hours.

What is the way out of this situation? We must learn to manage time. And so the child in any case did not feel unnecessary, abandoned. If possible, a woman is better to procure himself a free schedule or go part-time. Of course, this could affect the income of the family, but the love and trust of the child to the mother, too, is worth something! After all, the baby can not explain that my mother did not pay attention to it because a lot of work for his own good. He will make a simple and logical to a conclusion: Mom did not love him more. With all its consequences.

Another problem - as chronic fatigue. Even hardworking, hardy woman can literally "fall to the ground." This is not only bad for her health, but also goes to the detriment of work and family life.

What's the solution? It is necessary to resort to someone's aid. Well, when there are grandparents who are willing to take over part of the responsibilities for babysitting. If they are not likely to have to resort to the help of a nanny. An indispensable condition: like mother or needed help, in any case can not hire a nanny to the first comer. It is necessary to be sure that it is not only in good faith, but really loves children.

There is another problem often occurs in young, inexperienced mothers. In the case where the family well provided and in no need (for example, if the husband takes a paying job), you may receive the ordeal to quit work and become a housewife. Especially if she has heard from girlfriends: "Oh, if only to sit at home! ".

What can I say about this? Of course, and housekeeping - work. Still, hardly worth close to four walls. As the woman will inevitably limit and your social circle, and the prospect of its growth (not only career, but also intellectual).

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