Of course, just to figure out who is who on the job very difficult. Some people such inherent quality - they see through people, but if you're one of those people do not belong, you need to learn to recognize the obvious and hidden signs of impending storms and skillfully to oppose them.
Rule one - no one can be trusted. It sounds cruel, but it's true. Especially at work. If you work in a field where your colleagues are your competitors for unwitting customers, profitable projects or a cash prize at the end of the work, do not expect that they will think of you and not about themselves. They can be nice and sociable, but tell me, why should they give you money that you can take yourself? Of course, there are friendly relations in all groups, regardless of what people do at work. But, after all, be extremely careful and cautious. Do not think that the enemies are everywhere, but their actions are constantly evaluated in terms of competition. So, just in case.
Many people work perfectly, but none of it and know nothing. At the same time they are much more mediocre colleagues quickly moving up the career ladder. How to explain this? Simply they are able to talk about what they do and are constantly in sight of the manual. And you, if you think that your accomplishments and work overtime someone will appreciate deserved mistaken. In our difficult age, unfortunately, about their work need to scream at all angles, otherwise no one will notice it simply does not and will not take seriously. Therefore, every action, every step and do all that you spend time, burn, place the structures and authorities notified. You may think that this is unnecessary. Believe me, not at all. Just try this technique reliably protect you from the suspicion that you sit at work and wasting time.
Do you know what the most important advice for those who are experiencing problems because of "undermining" their colleagues at work? To your work, and no one has ever been able to find fault, to work flawlessly. Did you forget diary on the table, and colleagues have stolen your customer base? Well, you are to blame, the next time will be more attentive. Make a mistake, and it then inflated at a meeting to unprecedented heights? Avoid mistakes. This is all, of course, in words sounds easier than done. But the essence is that - if you constantly be on the alert and work well and debugged, no one can insert you stick in the wheel.
Competition is always at work. If she does szhivaetsya you with light, think, maybe it makes sense to find another, more relaxed work? In the end, you can work out to improve their communication skills and at home with the children and mother.