The principles described above, are most important. All other acquired by the pressure of society and the environment, are nothing more than incoming and outgoing opinion. It is necessary to separate her from the imposed, clearly identify that it is your opinion, and that - a stranger.
The relationship can not be built according to the laws of only one of the partners - in this case, the other feels slighted at least. In the worst case, it turns into a concealed resentment and leads to separation. Relationship - this is a compromise, built on trust and understanding. And it is to this should be sought.
Remove your thoughts on open dialogue. To do so, the most auspicious moment when you and your partner will be reasonably free from cases and mentally, and physically. During the dialogue, be fully open to understanding, and most importantly, the adoption of the opinions of your mate. Avoid emotional releases, irritation and stinging remarks about your partner. Perhaps your principles are not correct or are not truly yours. And maybe follow them at all easy for your loved one, he just does not know about them? Work through all the options and come to a solution that satisfies both of you.
However, quite often the case that a common language can not be found. In this case, one way out - to identify your principles are not above relations, but their obligatory condition. Speak firmly and confidently, superfluous emotions only prevent the partner understand the seriousness of your words. But if this path fails, try to time my principles. Once you feel that it does not suit you, you know that other choice but parting, no longer exists.